Friday, October 8, 2010

Good Parenting or Manipulation?

We have routine. We have had routine since Drew was born.
Nighttime routine was VERY important to us because we really needed our only down time as a couple. It has worked pretty well.
- Bed time use to be 6:30. Boy that was almost not having a kid because we got the whole evening.
- Then it moved to 7:00.
- Out of nowhere, it was 7:30.
- I saw 8:00 happening because we started to play more.
- Can't tell you where 8:30 came from...and every so often, he tries to push it to 9:00.

Well 9:00 is no good b/c I'm ready for bed no longer after he goes down.

So I'm holding Drew, and he keeps telling me, "mom- me no bed. me no tired."
I had to think how to get him to WANT to go to bed.
Then I said, "drew".
I whispered it again.

Drew asked who said that. I said, "MONKEY".

This got Drew so excited because right after that he told me to walk to his bed and put him in it (he is still in a crib).

He.wanted.to.go.to.bed.

It is awesome that monkey can talk...and that it keeps working.

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